I think the saying went like this:
“Yesterday is history, tomorrow is unknown and today is a gift – that is why they call it the present”.
(A quote taken from the blog of Susan Davies Leyden).

I have meant to do a post since we found out that Susan Davies (Leyden) lost her battle with cancer late last week but I didn’t really know where to start. I think I still don’t. Sus sent me the most heartfelt letter I think I have ever received after she learnt of Mike’s accident. What an incredibly selfless act when she was so unwell herself. Until 2 weeks ago when her health declined significantly she was a regular caller to touch base and see how Mike, Ash and I were going. When she asked, you knew she would really listen to your answer. She was incredibly perceptive and knew when I was fibbing!

Andrew mentioned today that Susan longed for a day without pain – I can’t imagine how she thought of others so often when in so much pain herself. The lovely words spoken about her by friends and family today are testament to the selflessness she constantly displayed and her guenuine interest in those around her. Mike was incredibly upset that he was not well enough to attend todays service – he had in no uncertain terms advised those at Talbot that he was to be up and ready (in respectable clothes,  not tracksuit) in time to get there and had moved his program around so that he could pay tribute to someone who had shown him so much kindness even in her own dark hours.

Our thoughts and prayers are with Andrew and Mackenzie through this very difficult time. We will never forget Susan’s thoughtfulness and the many kindnesses she showed us both (and Ashley), or that huge, all encompassing smile. Her offers of help were always thoughtful and practical. In particular I remember the receipt of some hairclips for Ashley that she and Mackenzie had bought and posted – another wonderful and thoughtful gesture that will be remembered by myself and one little girl for a very, very long time. I remember wondering at the time where she had found the time or energy to think of this gesture, let alone actually do it!

The service today reminded me to hold those close to you very, very dear and enjoy each and every minute you spend with them. Mike may have many challenges ahead but he will get to see his little girl grow up which is really what every parent wants. He might not get to be the dad that he had planned but he will be a dad none-the-less.

Susan’s diary noted something that was said at my sisters funeral: “No one truly dies while at least one person remembers”. Susan is here with us for a long, long time to come.